Saturday, September 30, 2023

Home, Hot Home

 When we walked into our home at about midnight on July 30th after a very long day of travel, we were overwhelmed with the heat.  We both said in unison, "The cooler is broken."  I checked the thermostat.  It was about 97 degrees in our home.  AHHH!  Not quite the welcome home we were hoping for!  We had set the thermostat for about 78 degrees before we left, knowing it would cool down pretty quickly.  But it was just blowing very hot air.

We are blessed that we have a separate air conditioner that serves downstairs.  Ken went down and turned it on.  We took our necessities to sleep down there.  It took a while to cool down, but we went to sleep.  We both were suffering from colds and coughs and had been up for many hours.  We were exhausted.

Before 8:00 the next morning, Ken called our faithful HVAC specialists- Alpine Air.  We have used the same company since literally day one of being in our home (when we moved in, our air conditioner wasn't working, and we called Alpine and they came right out.)  Brother Christensen has served us ever since.  He has since sold the company to his grandsons and retired.  Later that day it was the Grandpa - Brother Christensen who called us.  He said they had 31 calls before 8:00am and so his grandsons enlisted his services.  He came out that afternoon to assess the situation.  He said our unit was dead and we needed to replace it.  He also said they were swamped, and it would probably be next Monday before they could get to us. That was a whole week away! We geared up to wait and live in the basement.

But the very next day he called and scheduled us for 7:30 am on Wednesday!  Yea!  They were there promptly at 7:30am. and replaced our outside unit as well as the unit in the attic.









They had to cut a hole in the ceiling of our laundry room to install the new attic unit.  A couple of weeks later, someone came to repair that.


By about 1:00 pm, we had a working air conditioner.  We so appreciated them working us in earlier.  They said, "We have to take care of our faithful customers."  

They still have to come and replace insulation on the pipes in the attic.  They plan to do that when it is not so hot.  
But we find that this air conditioner works SO much better than our old one.  We keep having to turn it up because it is so cold.  
This experience made us SO much more grateful for air conditioning.  

Friday, September 29, 2023

Home, Sweet Home

As we journey far away,

And o'er the land do roam,
'Tis a pleasant sound to hear,
"Pray, make yourself at home."

But vain as it is useless,
For whether it be cot or throne,
On this wide, wide earth,
There is no place like home.

(The repair trucks in front of our home are a foreshadowing of the next post.)

Though we had a huge, unpleasant surprise when we got here, it still was So good to be home!

Thursday, September 28, 2023

Never Suppress a Generous Thought

 Never suppress a generous thought.  Isn't that a beautiful mantra?  It was told recently in a conference talk.  You might remember the story of the sister who made a silk tie for the prophet, but, as she approached his door to give it to him, her mind filled with doubts.  She lost her courage and turned to go.  Sister Kimball saw her through her window and came out, put her hands on the sister's shoulders and said these words to her, "Never suppress a generous thought."  It doesn't matter if the spirit directed us to do a good thing.  If it is a good thing, it is of the spirit.  

Another beautiful mantra to consider adopting.

Wednesday, September 27, 2023

My Top Ten Favorite Photos From Our Trip To Norway

 Here are my top ten photos from our trip to Scandinavia.  They are in no particular order, though I think the first one is my very favorite.

Skjolden, Norway

Skjolden, Norway
Skjolden, Norway
Flam, Norway



Pulpit Rock, Norway

On the Ship

Eidfjord, Norway

Skagen, Denmark

Skagen, Denmark
Dallen, Norway: Taken in the valley where Hans and Pauline Gabrielsen lived and where Pauline's family- the Larsens lived.



Drammen, Norway

Holmsbu, Norway

Okay, I cheated.  There are 12.  My top 12 favorite photos.
(I think Ken took most of these photos except the two of the group and this last one.  I think Roger took this one.)

Tuesday, September 26, 2023

Jeanine Castillo Funeral

 It has a been a long while since we had a death in our ward.  Jeanine's was a big shock.  Jeanine worked in customer service at Harmon's grocery store.  On Tuesday, August 15th, she finished her shift, went out and got in her car, started it, and died.  When she didn't come home, her husband went to look for her and found her.  It is so sad.  She truly is one of the sweetest, most sincere people I know.  She was way too young to die.  She was only 55 years old.  

Jeanine Michelle Castillo

May 5, 1968-Aug. 15, 2023

Our beautiful wife, mother and grandmother Jeanine Michelle Castillo died unexpectedly on Tuesday, Aug. 15, 2023, at the age of 55. As we are navigating this unimaginable loss, we are comforted in knowing that she lived so vibrantly, loved without holding back and led her life as the daughter of God she knew she was.

Jeanine was born in Inglewood, California, to Charles and Patricia Romero on May 5, 1968, along with her twin brother Chris Romero. Her mother Patricia Romero and siblings Chris Romero, Diane Davis, Cindy Spinosa and Linda Kennedy miss her dearly. Growing up Jeanine loved going to church activities, spending time with friends and being her high school mascot.

Jeanine truly lived for her family, her faith and serving others.

She loved her big family. From a young age, she knew what she wanted, to find her partner and have a family, and she found it. Jeanine met the love of her life Stan Castillo and went on their first date to an Earth, Wind & Fire concert. They married in the Los Angeles LDS Temple on Jan. 27, 1989, and soon thereafter started having their seven children: Brianne, Holly, Torri, Liam, Mitchell, Amy and Brendan. She loved being a mother; it was her greatest calling, and she embraced her son-in-law Danny and daughter-in-law Addison as her own kids.

When you think of the perfect grandma, Jeanine is it. She doted on her three grandchildren Naveya Hoefelmann, Daxton Hoefelmann and Luca Castillo. From church on Sundays, family trips to Huntington Beach, celebrating all the birthdays and gathering as a family as often as possible, Jeanine’s world revolved around her family and her faith in eternal families.

Her faith and serving others guided her life. Jeanine is a light to everyone who has had the gift of knowing her. From her work at Harmons, serving in different callings in church over the years, to her beautiful smile and eyes that saw you and was fully present in each conversation, she loved and served so many. She gave the best hugs and listened to any story you would tell at the edge of her seat no matter what it was about. If you cared about it, then so did she. She mastered how to make everyone feel like the most important person to her.

There is a famous Maya Angelou quote that says, “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” Jeanine did so much for others, but most importantly she showed us how to make others feel loved. May the times she has loved us in this life comfort us and know she is doing just that as our angel. Loving us, guiding us and reminding us, what she has always known; families can be together forever.

A viewing will be held on Saturday, Aug. 26, from 9:30-10:45 a.m. at the Bloomington Hills 4th Ward Chapel, 750 E. Fort Pierce Drive, St. George. An 11 a.m. funeral service will be held at the same location, followed by interment at the Tonaquint Cemetery, 1777 S. Dixie Drive, St. George.


My memories of Jeanine were that she was always so kind to everyone.  Though she worked full-time and was a mother to a large family, she frequently took food to others.  Her backyard neighbor, Buzz was older and mostly homebound.  She frequently brought him homemade soup.  She and her husband served as Primary teachers.  One mother in our ward whose son was in their class reported that Jeanine always brought a handout and /or treat to her son on Sundays, though they didn't attend church.  He knows she loved him.

The funeral was very nice, bringing comfort and eternal perspective.  Her husband, Stan was the main speaker and did a beautiful job.  One story he told was cute:  He said they would have early morning scripture study and prayer in their large family.  Afterward, they would all hold hands in a circle and sing, "We are fam- -i ly.  We'll be together for e-ter -ni -ty."  What comfort those words are now.





Monday, September 25, 2023

My Girlfriend's Boyfriend

 We enjoyed this cute movie with a fun twist at the end.


Sunday, September 24, 2023

The Trip of Lost and Found

 Not very far into our trip we labeled it as "The Trip of Lost and Found."  So many things were lost, but all were found.  We felt very blessed.  Following is a list of the lost and found:

Joan's suitcase.  It was lost by the airline in travel to Copenhagen.  She was without it for a couple of days. It came just before our ship departed Copenhagen and they delivered it to the ship.  

Hal's passport.  When Hal and Patty went to get on the ship, Hal didn't have his passport.  John and Cindy were with them, so they went up to Hal and Patty's room and waited for their luggage to arrive.  They went through Hal's suitcase.  When they lifted a shirt inside the suitcase, Hal's passport fell out.  They took it down to embarkation, relieving Hal and Patty who had been waiting nearly two hours, hoping they would find it.

Roger's phone.  Everyone attended a show.  Roger had his phone with him, but shortly after the show realized he had left it in the theater.  He went back to find it, but it was gone.  They searched all around, but it was not there.  They went to Lost and Found, but it wasn't there.  He went back repeatedly, over the next few days, but no one turned it in.  Someone suggested Roger ask to see the security footage.  When he did that, they said they would check into it.  Soon thereafter, the phone was found.  We surmise that the culprit (probably an employee) was seen on the footage taking it and it was retrieved.  They told Roger that it was found down in the seat, but he knew that wasn't true as he had checked so many times.  He was so grateful to get it back.

Everyone's Health.  Everyone lost their health during this cruise.  Every single one of us got a cold and cough.  Some had it worse than others and some got over it faster than others, but we all got it.  We are still working on the "found" part as I am still coughing.

Hotel Reservations.  When we arrived in Ed, Sweden we found the hotel where John had made reservations for us.  When we went to check in, the door was locked.  There was a phone number on the door.  John tried it, but the call wouldn't go through.  We were standing there, wondering what to do when a man came by in his car.  We told him our problem.  He said that this was no longer a hotel but was now apartments.  He was living in one of them.  He said the management had changed.  Oh dear.  Cindy tried the phone number again.  It worked on her phone.  A lady said that our check in information and keys were in a white box by the door.  Sure enough.  There were five envelopes, each with a key, a room number and papers.  We each took ours and were able to find our rooms and get moved in.  Our hotel rooms were lost, but they were found.

Tom's Wallet:  As we were getting ready to leave a hotel, Tom realized his wallet was missing.  He went through his suitcase and all of his belongings.  No wallet.  He had already checked out of their room, but he went back to the front desk and requested the key back for the room he had stayed in.  He went to the room and found his wallet up under the desk.  The wallet was lost, then found.

Patty's Glasses:  I think it was at that same hotel that Patty realized her glasses were missing.  She also did a frantic search through everything.  I don't think I ever heard where she found them, but she did find them.

John's Credit Card:  Remember that dramatic "stuck in the tunnel" story?  Remember we stopped at a gas station after we got through to go to the bathroom.  John decided to get some gas there.  He tried to use his credit card, but the pump wouldn't work.  He tried several pumps, but none of them worked.  He went inside and checked with the clerk.  He was unable to get fuel.

Later, as we were settling into the hotel, he realized his credit card was missing.  After getting checked into the room, he and Cindy went back the 20 minutes or so to that gas station to see if they found it.  Sure enough, in all of the confusion trying to get the pumps to work, John had left it in one of the pumps.  A customer had brought it in.  Relief!  The wallet was found.

Saturday, September 23, 2023

In My Own Home, Eating My Own Toast with My Own Jam

 As our fabulous trip was winding to a close, John made the cute comment, "I'm looking forward to being in my own home, eating my own toast with my own jam on it."

When I got home, I sent him this picture with the caption "In my own home, eating my own toast with my own jam on it.  (We all bought currant jam in a little store in Norway.)


John and Cindy got home a couple of days later.  He texted me this picture. 


He is also eating Norwegian goat cheese.  
It is good to be home.

Friday, September 22, 2023

Blister

 I am prone to foot blisters.  Our flight itinerary on the way to Copenhagen had us change planes in Amsterdam.  It was a horrible experience.  First the line for passport check was unbelievably long and slow.  Then we walked clear out to the gate from which our next flight would leave, only to find they had changed the gate.  The new gate was as far away as it could possibly be.  Those long walks were devastating on my foot.  When I took my shoe off that afternoon, I found a blister had formed.  

The next day, I put a blister pad on it and did a lot of walking in Copenhagen.  When I got back to the hotel, I found a mess.

Ken went to a nearby drug store and bought gauze, tape, aloe vera, Vaseline, and Epsom salts.  We didn't want this blister to ruin our vacation.
When we got on the ship, we asked our steward to find us a container in which I could soak my foot.  Every night, I soaked in hot water and Epsom salts.  Then I slathered it in Neosporin and wrapped it in gauze and taped it.  Then, the next morning, I took the gauze off and I put a blister pad on it.
It always looked pretty good in the morning, but by night it was weepy, bleeding and in need of a good soak.  It really was a downer on the whole trip.  It limited how much I could walk and caused a lot of pain.

I felt like if I could just get home and quit walking on it so much it would heal.  This picture was taken a few days after we got home.  It no longer bleeds or weeps and has formed a deep scab.  I can't wait for it to fall off so I can get in the pool.  I am just grateful it didn't get infected.  

*I wrote this a few weeks ago.  Update: I am now back in the pool!  It sure feels good!  It took a while, but my foot is healed.


Thursday, September 21, 2023

August Temple Visit

 We only got to the temple once during the month of August.  I was scheduled to go to the Cedar City temple while Ken was in Peru, but I was still ill with my cough, so had to cancel.  But we went once on August 17th .  We went to the Logan, Utah temple in connection with our Hinton sibling reunion.  We got a picture with four couples as we left.

Ken, Kay, Clark, Nan, Don, Ada, Rick, Sherrie



Wednesday, September 20, 2023

July 29 Travel Back to Copenhagen

 On Saturday we traveled back to Copenhagen.  Most of us were flying home from there on Sunday.  We were all staying in the same hotel that night.

We wanted to have one last dinner together.  Joan found this place on the internet that was on the way back.   It was good.  Most of us had John's beloved Wienerschnitzel  (John, who served his mission in Germany makes a mean Wienerschnitzel.)



We crossed that same bridge back into Denmark.



Our hotel room was a little bigger than the one we had in our first Copenhagen stay.

Later that evening, we walked over to the Circle K and got our last Danish pastries.  Man, they were so delicious.  Joan and Tom came while we were there and we had such a nice visit.  I wish I had taken a picture.  It was one of the highlights of the trip.  We sure love them. 

Thus concludes our pilgrimage to Sweden and Norway.

Tuesday, September 19, 2023

Andreas Peterson Journal Enrty from Prison in Drammen, Norway



For the most part, Andreas' journal is quite factual and unemotional. He carefully records his travels and distance covered each day, as well as what happened that day. But there are a few times that he expresses his feelings.  One was when he got news that two of his children had died at home while he was gone.  Another was when he told about being imprisoned in Drammen.  Following are translated excerpts from his journal:

November ,1875

Saturday morning, the twenty-seventh, one of the city's policemen came and took me down to the courthouse office for questioning.  A complaint was read against me for having baptized several individuals and for having administered the sacrament to some in Hurum.  I was then asked to whether or not I admitted to having done the things named in the complaint, to which I responded by asking if they meant baptism and the administration of the sacrament with the State Church, to which they said yes, whereupon I assured them I was innocent.  This was then followed by another question, "Did you not baptize some according to the Mormon method?"  In response to this question I said, "The baptism, of which one reads about in the New Testament, which was preached of by Christ and his apostles to the people, and according to which men and women were baptized, namely baptism by immersion for the remission of sins, that this was the way I believed to be correct and had baptized as many as had asked to be baptized in this manner and had also administered the sacrament according to the words of Christ and His own institution thereof."  My confession was taken down, that I had both baptized people and administered the sacrament in Hurum.  The officiating judge said that the information from my case would be sent in to the state's court and that their judgment would be known a few days later.  That afternoon I traveled by steamboat to Svelvigen . . .

February 14, 1876

I returned to Drammen.

The twentieth, Sunday evening, a policeman came and informed me that I was to report at City Hall immediately, a result of their having questioned me the previous autumn, on the twenty-seventh of November.  The judgment had been passed, which demanded that I would either pay a forty crown fine or serve five days on bread and water.  I refused to pay the fine and therefore was sentenced to suffer the consequence.  I followed the policeman to the city hall and there pleaded with the overseer on my knees to allow me to remain free until 8 o'clock that evening, at which time I would surrender myself.  He granted me my humble request.  In the afternoon we had a good service at our chapel, at the usual time.  At the previously appointed time, 8 o'clock that evening, I went to the city hall and was there placed by the overseer in the prison, a small room with a small window situated up near the ceiling, which had iron bars across it. The door was secured with thick  iron plates, which was locked every evening with a strong lock, which made it impossible for any captive to break free from such a room.  In the room stood a small table and a round stool, both of which were securely nailed to the floor, and an iron stove which was fastened to the stone wall.  As soon as I came into this dismal room I was searched by the guard who confiscated my watch and books I had with me.  I now sat down and looked around at my new surroundings, and for a time I wept tears of sadness because it had been my fate to be thrown in a dismal prison.  I reflected back upon my entire life, from my birth and infancy up until the great peace and joy I felt at having a clear and unspotted conscience before God and all people, and that the reason for my present condition was that I had borne my humble, but loyal testimony of the Son of God's restored Gospel to the children of men, and had baptized some of the faithful souls for the remission of their sins.  Thinking upon all of this gave me comfort and encouragement in my loneliness, inasmuch as the Spirit from on high had whispered peace to my soul and that it was for Christ's sake that I was here.

  Each evening the overseer brought in a hammock which I would have to hang on the wall myself, which was just comfortable enough to sleep in, and then he would take away my boots and pants, not to return them to me until the following morning.  The first morning, the overseer brought me bread and water as he did for the other prisoners, which he left for me, but I tasted not a bit of the bread or drank any of the water, but simply used a small portion of it to wash my hands and face.

  I told the guard and the overseer that if they wanted to take the bread that was given me out into the streets to those who cried from hunger for food that it would be a blessing.

  I told these gentlemen further that in the day when one is not allowed to buy or sell unless he has the mark of the beast on his hand or in his countenance (see Revelation 13:11-18); and that (in the day) the rivers would be transformed into blood and that the people would have blood to drink, then it would be well for those who were the cause of my sitting here locked up with the confines of these dismal walls, to have this bread and water to satisfy their hunger and thirst.

  I also spoke with them concerning the restoration of the Gospel through the words of Joseph Smith and of the need to accept the Gospel while the doors of mercy stood open, and of the destruction of the wicked.

  I was allowed once or twice a day to go outside in the garden for fresh air.

  Friday, the twenty-fifth, the overseer came, and released me from the prison, returning my watch and my books.  I felt myself still strong enough to go five more days without food or drink.

  The twenty-sixth, the day after I was released from prison, I walked three Norwegian miles on foot (19 English miles) across the Drammen fjord to Hurum.  That night I received lodigng with Brother Jorgen Michalsen in Halmsbod.

  The twenty-eighth, went to Dalen, slept there.

The twenty-ninth, went up over the Drammen fjord to Brother Jensen from Kjendestangen's, where I arrived after it was dark, lodged here.

  The first of March, went to Drammen.

  Sunday, the fifth of March, President Soren Petersen came here to Drammen and we had two good services at our chapel, one in the morning and one in the afternoon.  On Monday, President Peterson returned to Chistiania.

  The fourteenth, I walked to Hurum, was allowed to spend the night at Christian from Odegarden's.

  Wednesday, the fifteenth, went to Thorkel's in Dallen, and held a service there in the afternoon.  In the evening I baptized Hans Gabrielsen.


I find it very significant that the first person he baptizes after his incarceration was our paternal great-grandfather, Hans Martin Gabrielsen.  A few days later he mentions baptizing Han's wife, Pauline.  As I understand it, a missionary was not called for a specific length of time back then.  When he was incarcerated, he had been serving for over two years as a missionary.  He would have been perfectly justified to conclude his mission and go to his home.  But because he did not do that, Hans and Pauline received the gospel of Jesus Christ.  I am so very grateful to Andreas.  I am grateful for the opportunity to join with my beloved siblings to walk where he walked and to feel his presence with us.  I look forward to meeting him and thanking him in person.

Monday, September 18, 2023

July 28 We Don't Do That Here

 On the way back from Drammen, we had to pass through the tunnel that went under the fjord again.  In the morning we had gone through with no problem, but this time there was a big problem.

 Shortly before we got to the tunnel, we stopped at a gas station to go to the bathroom.  Thank goodness.  Joan and Tom and Patty were a bit ahead of us and texted us that traffic was stopped in the tunnel.  They didn't know why.  Soon we joined the queue. We were stopped just outside the first tunnel, with Pam and Roger and Hal right behind us.  We sat for a long, long time.

We watched as car after car left the line, turned around and went back.  But we googled it and there really wasn't a good alternative route.  There was a ferry that left from a town a ways away, but who knows how long that line would be or at what time they quit operating.  We decided to wait it out.  We did eventually go inside the tunnel, but only because cars left the line.  There was no movement.

Cars going the other way came through just like normal.  Why don't they take tuns and let us go through? 
Can I just say that Cindy is AMAZING.  She found the number for highway police and called them.  She asked for someone who could speak English.  She got a lady that could sort of speak English.  She said they knew about the problem.  It was a big truck that had broken down.  They were working on fixing it.  Why don't you just tow it?  Why don't you stop traffic and take turns letting the two lanes go through?  "We don't do that here."  What?  You don't do that here?  I guess in Norway it is just your bad luck if you are in the lane that is stopped up.  It was another testament to how blessed we are to live in the USA.  We just don't know how blessed.  This went on for two hours.  Of course everyone was worried about going to the restroom.  Ken made the mistake of not going at that last gas station.  He was really suffering. 





After we finally got through the tunnel, we stopped at a gas station/ restroom.  Guess what pulled up after us?  The very truck that caused the trouble, being towed.

No, we did not throw eggs at it.  But, as you can tell, the thought crossed my mind!















Sunday, September 17, 2023

July 28 Drammen, Dallen

 The next day we headed to Drammen.  It was raining, so not a real pleasant drive.



Our great grandfather, Andreas Peterson went to Drammen more than once on his mission.  He was not welcome there.
This beautiful cathedral was just up the street from where Andreas was imprisoned.  It would have been there when he was there.

City hall


It was in this building that he was imprisoned for five days.  His crime?  Baptizing and administering the sacrament.  In the next post, I will publish his words about this experience, taken from his journal.




Pam went in this building- city hall- to find out exactly where the prison was.  The people there were so very nice and helpful.  They did the research and showed her it was the building just across the street, shown in the picture above this one.  This city hall building was there when Andreas was.  He talks about having to report there on more than one occasion to face charges against him.

It says it was built in 1871.



It was raining, so we sought shelter under this canopy.  Patty is reading to us from Andreas' journal.

Ken and I in front of the prison.


The rain seemed a fitting backdrop for the emotional words Andreas wrote about his imprisonment.  John is reading them to us here.  I will record them and present them in the next post.

One more picture of the building which housed the prison.

This picture is facing the other way- toward the pier on the fjord.

As we left, the sun came out and we drove up past that beautiful cathedral.

Gorgeous flowers in front of the cathedral.

We had lunch in a local restaurant, then went to this bakery for pastries.

The restaurant where we had lunch.








Dallen

Dallen was the area where our Gabrielsen ancestors- Hans Martin and Pauline Gabrielsen lived.  Pauline's family, the *Larsens also lived in this area.  Hans and Pauline were newlyweds when Andreas taught them the gospel of Jesus Christ and baptized them. They and Andreas and his wife, Inga Carolina Sophia Overn (who he also taught the gospel on his mission) and Hans and Pauline all later immigrated to Logan, Utah.  As we were traveling on the highway, John had an impression, "That is it.  That is the road to Dallen."  He made a U-turn with the other cars following, and we went down the dirt road.  Sure enough.  There was a small sign that said Dahlen.  
We drove down that road for quite a while and found a beautiful farm and farmhouse.  This old barn was there.  Patty had a picture of it from their previous trip.

Could it have been there when our ancestors were there?  You can see the beautiful home in the background.  A woman came out and talked to Ken and John.  We hoped she didn't mind our trespassing.






A picture taken from the highway overlooking the Dallen valley.


Such meaningful pictures of our family standing on this sacred ground.

Pam, Patty, John, Kay, Joan




A closer picture of the beautiful home now on the farm.

We then traveled to Holmsbu, a little vacation town on the seaside.  It was fun to drive through.  It was a place that Andreas visited frequently on his mission.


So beautiful!





This was such a pleasant time.  We just parked in a parking lot and then found benches and sat together and enjoyed the beautiful afternoon before we headed back.


Joan and Patty had arrived a little earlier and had bought some currant jam in a little grocery store.  So we all stopped and bought some before heading back.  Our pleasant afternoon was soon to take a turn.  Dun, dun, dun.  Stay tuned!


*I do a lot of searching for family names to take to the temple.  A large majority of those I find come from the Larsen line.