Monday, February 22, 2010

Hot Lava Room

Why do we call it the Hot Lava Room? We’ll get to that later . .. much later. What is a room? Four walls, ceiling, floor. This one had three little welled basement windows near the ceiling, a fireplace. It was a long, large room( the picture shows only half of it) that nearly spanned the entire width of my parental home- the home I came to as a newborn from the hospital and the home I left for Ricks College from eighteen years later. Was it my favorite room in the house? No. Probably wouldn’t even be in my top five favorite rooms. But there are a lot of memories there. It was the family room before the house was remodeled and a new, beautiful family room was added upstairs. But I have no memory of that. I was only five when we remodeled. To me, it was always just a large room downstairs that wasn’t used much. My first memories of the hot lava room are long before it was a hot lava room. Our cousins, Martha and Linda would come for family dinners. After we giggled our way through dinner, we were banished to the basement to play. We invented the colored egg or “Peep! Peep!” game. One person was “it” and the others would be eggs and sit on the shelf. Each egg would choose a color in his mind. “It” would go around knocking on the heads of the eggs and guess a color. If the color was wrong, the egg was mute (as all eggs should be). But if the color was right, the egg would say,”Peep! Peep!” then jump down and run a pre -determined course with “It” in hot pursuit. Whoever got back to the egg’s spot last was now “It.” For some reason we thought it was very fun. Many hours were spent there peeping and chasing and giggling.

Fast forward to the Christmas when my brother was given a train track for Christmas. My parents had someone build a marvelous train track for him. It was two large pieces of plywood hinged together in the middle with a train track around the outside. Turn it upside down, put it on a table, and it became a ping pong table when a net was added. So began the beatings. Many an evening was spent in the hot lava room getting a little white ball slammed into my face by my brother John. I would hit a high, fat ball over the net, and back it would come hard and fast. He'd usually play left-handed to give me a fighting chance, but still I never beat him. Not even close.
One night I took off my pink winged glasses that had real glass lenses so they wouldn’t get broken by my brother’s intense hits. I put them on the bookshelf in the hot lava room. Then I forgot. It was days before I remembered where those glasses were and could see again. Years later, one of Ken’s brothers was bragging about what a good ping pong player he was. He’d won the SUU Institute tournament or something. So I played him and beat him. I didn’t cream him, but I beat him. “Where did you learn to play like that?” For the first time, I appreciated my brother’s schooling.
The room had an entire wall with built-in bookshelves. I didn't realize until I was writing this that I modeled my own basement family room after this room, as I also devoted an entire wall to bookshelves. It was full of books. I remember going down there as a girl and looking through the books. The beautiful art books, the "Book of Knowledge" series, the medical books, the National Geographic magazines, plus many novels and other non-fiction books. I think I learned to love books in front of those shelves.
Fast forward to my teenage years. For some reason, I liked to spend my evenings after school and dinner in the hot lava room. I set up my stereo in there and listened to the radio while I did my homework. In the early 70’s, the rock opera album “Jesus Christ Super Star” was extremely popular. The radio station would play the theme song often. I was very offended by that song. Each time it came on the radio, I ran to the beige dial phone in the hot lava room and dialed the number of the Nampa radio station. As soon as the DJ would answer, I’d say, “Take that song off!” and slam the phone down. My tactics were less than Christian, but I made a statement.
Graduation night was spent in the hot lava room. I invited several “Mormon” friends to party after graduation. Before and after that, nearly every Friday evening was spent in that room with friends, playing Monopoly, ping pong, Password, etc. It was the Mormon hangout- a safe place.
Okay, now we’re to the hot lava part. Up until now, it wasn’t the hot lava room. My earliest memories are of a hard vinyl tile, black and mauve squares, if I remember right. I probably wouldn’t remember it, except that my older sisters used to have to wax and buff it with a buffing machine. They complained ever after that the “little girls” never had to work that hard while they were growing up. Ya Da Ya Da! Then there was some indistinct brown carpet. It was after I left home that the soft, thick “hot lava” carpet was laid in that room. I’m not sure why anyone would choose that bright orange-red- black concoction for a floor. But I’m glad they did. Much like the giggling cousins of yesteryear, a new batch of cousins was banished to the basement hot lava room after dinner for hours of play. A huge cupboard was full of costumes: old dresses, hats, gloves, muu muus, high heels, leis, etc, etc. Many cousin hours were spent in dress up. But the most engaging game was hot lava. I really need someone of that generation to explain the game. (It’s kind of like getting to the end of the joke and you realize you don’t know the punch line.) But I know that they set up chairs and traveled around the entire room without touching the carpet. For the carpet was “hot lava.” If they touched it, they’d burn. I really think some of them actually believed they would, judging by the intensity with which they played. There’s not a Gabrielsen cousin that doesn’t know about the hot lava room. Ask them. It is what you did at Grandma’s house. Now there’s another generation- a generation that doesn’t know about “Peep! Peep!” or “Hot Lava”. But I hope as they are banished to their grandmother’s basements, that they will come up with their own cousin games. Ones that will endear them to grandma’s carpet or ping pong table or basement room or whatever, but mostly to each other. For really that’s what rooms are- places where memories are made and where we are bound together- forever. “Peep! Peep!”

Sunday, February 21, 2010

Happy Birthday, Michelle!!!

How I love this precious, happy daughter. Her positive outlook on life is such a blessing to me. Last week, she had a week from you know where. The biggest ever recorded snow storm hit DC. Two of them. On the evening after the first huge storm, Melli's husband's left side went tingly and numb. He had to be transported to the hospital in an ambulance because they couldn't get the car out of the parking lot. So Melli had to get help to dig it out, get chains on the tires, and drive on scary roads to get to the hospital (they wouldn't let her baby go in the ambulance, so she had to drive). Then, two days later it happened again. Then, the next day it happened again. During all that, her baby had some health problems, too. She was dealing with all that, but still when we talked to her, she would tell how blessed they are because . . .and then tell why. For instance, she felt like they had been prompted to work on digging the car out the morning of the first incident. She woke up that morning, and just felt like she should go out and work on the car and worked for over an hour for no apparent reason. If she hadn't, they wouldn't have got that car out that night. Brian had worked on it the day before, too, but then more snow fell. Anyway, she always looks for the silver lining- always plays, "this is good because . .. " And amazingly, even in the worst circumstances, she always comes up with something good. She is a strong, beautiful woman and I am so grateful to have her for a daughter. Happy 25th birthday, Michelle!!!!
Oh, by the way, Brian is fine. They think he has cluster migraines because he would get a bad headache after each incident. It's a very unusual symptom of migraine. Gabbi is also fine.

President's Holiday Weekend

Better late than never. Here's a slideshow of our fun weekend with the Mackrorys last week.

Thursday, February 18, 2010

The Little Prince

The Little Prince The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

My rating: 2 of 5 stars We read this for book club. . . It was o.k. is the perfect review for it. I wanted to like it, but didn't much. View all my reviews >>

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

A Week of Good Things

On February's fast Sunday last week, a dear sister in our ward talked about a show on t.v. where they give someone a camera and tell them to take a picture of a good thing. This idea intrigued me and I decided to take a picture each day of the coming week of a good thing. Little did I know as I started that week that it would be a week filled with "bad things" as I had many worries and concerns for the health of several of my family members. The paradox of that concern with looking for good things ended up making the lesson of the week even more powerful. So, I now share with you my week of good things:
Sunday: Ken making Valentine Sugar cookies Monday: Laundry day. We didn't have a dryer for many years. A dryer is a very good thing. Tuesday: Lake Vincent. We live in the desert and have been in a bit of a drought, so Tueday's all-day rain storm was a very good thing. We live lakeside. Across the street from our house is the Vincent's house. Every time it rains a "lake" forms in front of their house. The first picture was taken in the morning before it got very big, the 2nd was later that night. Lake Vincent at night Wednesday: We awoke to fog. It was gorgeous (again, rare in the desert) Thursday: The Mackrorys came! Such a good thing!
Grandpa greets the kids
Friday:Nathan reads a story to his mama.Brielle performs, "Pants on the ground, pants on the ground, lookin like a fool with your pants on the ground." Saturday: Nathan with the sugar cookie he just decorated: Brielle tries a scary thing at the park, and loves it! That's a good thing. Sunday: Happy Valentine's Day! I gave the camera to Brielle and asked her to take pictures of good things. I was impressed with her choices and her photography: Brielle's Good Things:
I laughed at this one: She took a picture of her parent's engagement picture. She's in the picture. She's the gleam in her daddy's eye. She turned the camera and took a picture of a very good thing! Look for good things in your life. They're everywhere!

Monday, February 15, 2010

Death Comes For the Archbishop

My rating: 3 of 5 stars
I would like to give this 2 1/2 stars. Willa Cather is an amazing author, but I wasn't taken with the subject matter or setting. She has tremendous descriptive powers and I did learn a lot about Catholic culture, which was interesting. I did find myself missing the two main characters when I finished the book. Overall, a pleasant read.

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Hungry Hintons

Check out our new food blog at hungryhintons.blogspot.com. All of us "Hinton girls" will be posting favorite recipes from time to time. This was Michelle's great idea so we could share recipes with each other (as we've been doing by email), but we'd love to have you join in the foodie fun. So stop by and try a recipe. Happy Hinton eating!

Saturday, February 6, 2010

CALEB IS HOME!

Baby Caleb got to come home today! So, so happy!

Thursday, February 4, 2010

Caleb/ 4 Weeks

Caleb is doing so well! He has NO tubes any more. He's sucking and eating and gets all his own nourishment now. He is hoping to get to go live in his new home this weekend! He's a miracle! He weighs 5 lbs. 5 oz. It's almost like he's been saying, "Okay, now what is it you want me to do?" and then he does it. He still has a few spells a day where his heartbeat gets too low, but other than that, he's ready and raring to get home to his beautiful new nursery and his loving parents. Thanks again for your faith and prayers.

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

If You Don't, I Will

She didn't, so I am. I threatened Kristen that if she didn't blog about her athletic accomplishment, I would. Those of you who have attended BYU know what it means to be in the world of Intramural Sports there. Literally, the most coveted shirt on campus is the Intramural Championship t-shirt. It is given to the 1st place finisher/ finishers in each Intramural Championship and it is NO easy task to win it. Since her husband re-entered BYU, Kristen has played on basketball, flag football, and racquetball singles and doubles teams. She has come in 2nd before, but finally, she and her partner Jamie (her husband is also a re-entry student) won the racquetball doubles championship in December! They now wear their t-shirts proudly(while they do the laundry and stuff). Pretty cool since they are competing in all those sports against girls much younger than them. Good job, Kristen. PS You can still blog it!