Monday, February 22, 2010

Hot Lava Room

Why do we call it the Hot Lava Room? We’ll get to that later . .. much later. What is a room? Four walls, ceiling, floor. This one had three little welled basement windows near the ceiling, a fireplace. It was a long, large room( the picture shows only half of it) that nearly spanned the entire width of my parental home- the home I came to as a newborn from the hospital and the home I left for Ricks College from eighteen years later. Was it my favorite room in the house? No. Probably wouldn’t even be in my top five favorite rooms. But there are a lot of memories there. It was the family room before the house was remodeled and a new, beautiful family room was added upstairs. But I have no memory of that. I was only five when we remodeled. To me, it was always just a large room downstairs that wasn’t used much. My first memories of the hot lava room are long before it was a hot lava room. Our cousins, Martha and Linda would come for family dinners. After we giggled our way through dinner, we were banished to the basement to play. We invented the colored egg or “Peep! Peep!” game. One person was “it” and the others would be eggs and sit on the shelf. Each egg would choose a color in his mind. “It” would go around knocking on the heads of the eggs and guess a color. If the color was wrong, the egg was mute (as all eggs should be). But if the color was right, the egg would say,”Peep! Peep!” then jump down and run a pre -determined course with “It” in hot pursuit. Whoever got back to the egg’s spot last was now “It.” For some reason we thought it was very fun. Many hours were spent there peeping and chasing and giggling.

Fast forward to the Christmas when my brother was given a train track for Christmas. My parents had someone build a marvelous train track for him. It was two large pieces of plywood hinged together in the middle with a train track around the outside. Turn it upside down, put it on a table, and it became a ping pong table when a net was added. So began the beatings. Many an evening was spent in the hot lava room getting a little white ball slammed into my face by my brother John. I would hit a high, fat ball over the net, and back it would come hard and fast. He'd usually play left-handed to give me a fighting chance, but still I never beat him. Not even close.
One night I took off my pink winged glasses that had real glass lenses so they wouldn’t get broken by my brother’s intense hits. I put them on the bookshelf in the hot lava room. Then I forgot. It was days before I remembered where those glasses were and could see again. Years later, one of Ken’s brothers was bragging about what a good ping pong player he was. He’d won the SUU Institute tournament or something. So I played him and beat him. I didn’t cream him, but I beat him. “Where did you learn to play like that?” For the first time, I appreciated my brother’s schooling.
The room had an entire wall with built-in bookshelves. I didn't realize until I was writing this that I modeled my own basement family room after this room, as I also devoted an entire wall to bookshelves. It was full of books. I remember going down there as a girl and looking through the books. The beautiful art books, the "Book of Knowledge" series, the medical books, the National Geographic magazines, plus many novels and other non-fiction books. I think I learned to love books in front of those shelves.
Fast forward to my teenage years. For some reason, I liked to spend my evenings after school and dinner in the hot lava room. I set up my stereo in there and listened to the radio while I did my homework. In the early 70’s, the rock opera album “Jesus Christ Super Star” was extremely popular. The radio station would play the theme song often. I was very offended by that song. Each time it came on the radio, I ran to the beige dial phone in the hot lava room and dialed the number of the Nampa radio station. As soon as the DJ would answer, I’d say, “Take that song off!” and slam the phone down. My tactics were less than Christian, but I made a statement.
Graduation night was spent in the hot lava room. I invited several “Mormon” friends to party after graduation. Before and after that, nearly every Friday evening was spent in that room with friends, playing Monopoly, ping pong, Password, etc. It was the Mormon hangout- a safe place.
Okay, now we’re to the hot lava part. Up until now, it wasn’t the hot lava room. My earliest memories are of a hard vinyl tile, black and mauve squares, if I remember right. I probably wouldn’t remember it, except that my older sisters used to have to wax and buff it with a buffing machine. They complained ever after that the “little girls” never had to work that hard while they were growing up. Ya Da Ya Da! Then there was some indistinct brown carpet. It was after I left home that the soft, thick “hot lava” carpet was laid in that room. I’m not sure why anyone would choose that bright orange-red- black concoction for a floor. But I’m glad they did. Much like the giggling cousins of yesteryear, a new batch of cousins was banished to the basement hot lava room after dinner for hours of play. A huge cupboard was full of costumes: old dresses, hats, gloves, muu muus, high heels, leis, etc, etc. Many cousin hours were spent in dress up. But the most engaging game was hot lava. I really need someone of that generation to explain the game. (It’s kind of like getting to the end of the joke and you realize you don’t know the punch line.) But I know that they set up chairs and traveled around the entire room without touching the carpet. For the carpet was “hot lava.” If they touched it, they’d burn. I really think some of them actually believed they would, judging by the intensity with which they played. There’s not a Gabrielsen cousin that doesn’t know about the hot lava room. Ask them. It is what you did at Grandma’s house. Now there’s another generation- a generation that doesn’t know about “Peep! Peep!” or “Hot Lava”. But I hope as they are banished to their grandmother’s basements, that they will come up with their own cousin games. Ones that will endear them to grandma’s carpet or ping pong table or basement room or whatever, but mostly to each other. For really that’s what rooms are- places where memories are made and where we are bound together- forever. “Peep! Peep!”

15 comments:

martha meyers said...

I love that photo! We loved going to the cousins house in Caldwell; we always had lots of fun.

Ming said...

I LOVE this post! Such wonderful memories of the hot lava room. I loved hopping around from chair, to fireplace hearth, to the bed, to the book case, to the table..etc. etc, until you made it back to home base (the cupboards) without letting the lava monster get you. Yes, there was a lava monster. One designated person to try and knock everyone off the furniture and down into the hot lava. If you got knocked down you became the lava monster. So much fun! It was fun hearing about your memories of that room as well.

James and Tricia Thomas said...

Brings a tear to my eye! I loved the hot lava room!!! Good times!!!

Joan Morris said...

I love this post! You are such a cute writer and I loved reliving the memories. I had forgotten how to play the peep peep game. I think the reason for picking the "Hot lava" carpet was because it was on a great sale so Mom and Dad got a good deal on it. You forgot to mention that the fireplace was painted (by me) orange to match :(

Carina said...

I read this with Aaron and he enjoyed seeing the "hot lava" carpet and reliving his "hot lava" days. Aaron remembers the game eventually having more than one monster as the players were tagged (Aaron wants to know if he's remembering this correctly?). It was fun to read about your family's memories in this room.

Kristen Mackrory said...

Okay. I'm crying. I wasn't until the end...Peep, peep. That IS what rooms are for and I do have many wonderful memories of the hot lava room. Come to think of it, Grandma and Grandpa were so nice to let us climb all over their furniture like that. I LOVED the Peep, peep game. It sounds like a blast. We should play it next time we are all together.
I feel like I know you so much better after reading all of your wonderful memories of that room. Thank heavens for "safe places" to hang out. Thank you for providing one for my friends and I when I was growing up.
Yay for Hot Lava room memories!

James and Tricia Thomas said...

Yes Aaron there were many monsters! Usually we forced Ali, Aaron, Wes, or Preston to be it. Adam was always honorary monster. And if you got someone they became a monster as well! Good times!

buddy said...

Well Kay, you have done it again! What a great compilation of 'hot lava' room memories you have created. It helped me to put together all of the individual memories of that room into a whole beautiful technicolor movie of the mind moving forward and back in time. Your love for reading has definitely translated into great narrative skills! The first time I was introduced to that room is when your dad took John and me down to look at his paintings. After showing us his projects, he showed us a picure of your young mother...he said, "I married the prettiest girl in Logan...and she is as beautiful today as then!" Wow, that made an impression on a 20 year old in love herself! Thanks for the memories, Kay, Love you lots and lots. Cg

Michelle said...

I remember the hot lava room! Such fun memories! Fun post, Mom!

Sarah said...

Fun to hear about all the memories one room can bring.

Shonna said...

I love the hot lava room!!! Such choice memories in that room, I hardly have any other memories in that house, but dress up and playing hot lava were so much fun!

sara cardon said...

What a great post!! I always think it's kind of sad that my kids (the other great grandkids) will never know my grandparents on that side, or ever be able to say they went to the Caldwell house, or ate squeaky cheese, or picked raspberries, or swam in the Blacker's pool, etc. etc. I'll have to copy and save this one for when they're older. Thanks!

Pal & Hatty said...

Hi kay,
I love your posts! you are a great writer and these memories will live forever!
Love,
Patty

Roger said...

I have learned many things about the hot lava carpet and about that big room downstairs! How wonderful to have this joining of the minds and memories at your thought -provoking blog, Kay. I think I am becoming a fan of the blog. Still scared, though. it's hard to teach an old dog new tricks. Love,
Pam

The Allens said...

Kay, Thank you for recording such fun memories from my childhood! I loved learning about the Ping-Pong tournaments and the Peep Peep game too. I tried explaining 'Hot Lava' to my kids once, but it just doesn't work without the accompanying flaming orange and coal black carpet! I would love to read more of these memories from you! What an incredible writer! --Ali