Friday, March 28, 2025

Reading

 Reading


A love of reading was instilled in me from an early age.  Some of my earliest memories are of my mom reading to Joan and I before we went to bed at night.  Mom would sit in between us and read us wonderful stories.  Recently, for Christmas, Grandpa Ken found copies of two of my favorite childhood story books:  Three Little Horses and The Contented Little Pussycat.





 I loved those books so much and was so thrilled and surprised when Grandpa gave them to me. 

Once I could read myself, I loved to read.  It was always my favorite subject in school.  My favorite part of every day at school was just after lunch when our teacher would read to us from a book for about a half an hour. 

I have wonderful memories of my eighth-grade reading class.  We had to read a book in each of several categories and write reports on them.  I’m sure I don’t remember all of the categories, but here is a list of some that I remember:

Modern fiction, Historical fiction. Fantasy, Animal Stories, Non-fiction, a poetry collection and a fable collection.  There may have been others. 

Looking at the list was like looking at a Christmas wish list.  I was so excited to read the different kinds of books.  Well, except fantasy and animal stories.  I didn’t think I would like those.  But they are the ones I remember most.  It was probably because I didn’t think I would like them.  I read A Wrinkle in Time for one of my fantasy books, and I read Where the Red Fern Grows for one of my animal stories.  I loved both of them.  I don’t remember the others that I read, but I loved that class- even writing the reports on the books.  I think there was also a “Your Choice” category where we could read any book we pleased. 

In ninth grade, I read a lot.  I would go to the school library every Friday after school and look through the shelves.  I would choose as many books as I was allowed to check out and take them home, looking forward to a delicious weekend of reading.  My dream was to go to sleep reading on Friday night and then wake up early and read and read on Saturday morning.  I remember being irritated that my dream got interrupted because I had to get up to go the bathroom on Saturday morning.  My mom bought me books in those days, many of which I have down on our bookshelves now.

In our backyard, we had a large tree.  The lowest branches were pretty high, so I would get a ladder out of our shed and climb it to reach the lowest branch, and then climb up into the tree to read.  Because of my extensive reading, I had read about people doing this and it sounded so wonderful and romantic to me.  The reality, though, was that sitting on a tree branch to read is really not very comfortable.   It sounds way more romantic than it really is.  But I kept trying.  I could often be found reading up in that tree.


Later, when I was a junior in high school, I took an elective class called “Individualized Reading.”  Talk about the perfect class!  That eighth grade reading class was awesome, but this one was even better.  For the entire period each day, we sat in our desks and read.  We could read anything we wanted.  Anything!  When we finished a book, we filled out a form about it, then put that form in Mrs. Elliot’s “in” basket.  Then, we went on reading.  When it was our turn, Mrs. Elliott would call us up to her desk and interview us about the book that we had finished.  There were no grades.  It was a pass/fail class.  I loved that class. I don’t remember all of the books I chose, but, because we were studying the New Testament that year in Seminary, I chose to read the New Testament in its entirety for one of my books.  That one took a while.

In college, I loved my freshman English classes where we studied literature.  I had a teacher, Mrs. Bennion, who made Shakespeare come alive and I fell in love.  She also knew how to teach poetry.  How I loved that literature class.

Later, at BYU, I took Children’s Literature.  Much as in my eighth grade reading class, we had to read so many books in each category and review them in a certain form on large index cards and keep them in a file box. Some of the categories I remember: Modern fiction, Non-fiction (one had to be a biography), Poetry anthologies, Fantasy, Fable Collections, Animal Stories, etc. I remember we had to read and review several Mother Goose collections and choose our favorite one.  My teacher said that should be the first thing we buy for our children’s layette.  I loved, loved, loved that class.  I really loved reviewing the books, and long after I finished the class, I continued to review the books I read.  I kept them in that file box.  I still have that file box of book reviews.

Through the years since, I have continued to read a lot. Now, in our retirement years, I am following the example of my father.  When they lived in St. George, he would walk to the library often, pick out several books, and walk home.  He would then read and read.  He always read two books at once- going back and forth.  He finished a book most every day.  Because of his example, I too read two (or sometimes three) books at a time.  I average finishing two to three books a week. 

I used to could name my favorite books, but because I have now read so many, I can’t do that anymore.  My favorite social media site is Goodreads.com.  I get to continue my love of book reviewing by reviewing the books I read on that site.  I publish those reviews on our blog. I love reading others’ reviews on goodreads as well.  At present, I have reviewed about 500 books on our blog.  That number will probably increase by tonight!  It grows, if not daily, at least weekly.  Each year end, I write a blog post, listing all the books I’ve read that year.  I choose a favorite book and a least favorite book from each category: fiction and non-fiction.

I have tried a couple of different book apps online.  I loved Audible.  It is audio books to listen to.  Then I switched to Scribd.  There are audible books, as well as ones you can read for a monthly fee. But their format changed, and it was no longer a good deal.  So I am now using Libby through the library.  Also, I read some on Kindle books.  But still my favorite is to actually own, hold, and read a real book.  I love looking at the cover, marking my spot, knowing exactly how much is left, and feeling and smelling the book.  It is my joy.  Seeing the bookmarked book sitting there, waiting for me to come back to it, literally puts a smile on my face.  Joy, pure joy.  I love reading!


Nothing is more satisfying than seeing a delicious stack of books to read.


 
Our downstairs bookshelf.

Thursday, March 27, 2025

Whistling Past the Graveyard

 

Whistling Past the GraveyardWhistling Past the Graveyard by Susan Crandall
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Historical Fiction Physical book
I loved this book. I didn’t love it every minute, to be sure, but when I was done reading, I realized what a great book it was-mostly because of two wonderful characters that are added to my literary heroes list: Eula and Miss Cyrena. Starla’s daddy is a pretty great character, too, but you don’t meet him until near the end of the book. The setting is the summer of 1963 in Mississippi. Though the book has no language or sex issues, there is cruelty and treatment of black people that makes you cringe. I will keep this book on my shelf and maybe return to it someday- after I get all of these other books on TBR shelf gone (that's funny!)


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My Silver Book Rules

 I have used the same planner system for many years.  I know nowadays that most people use their phones for calendars and to do lists, but I cling to my old-fashioned leather and paper planners.  I order one for the next year each October and begin filling it out for the next year.  It takes a lot of time to set it up, but it is worth it to me.



My planner keeps me motivated and moving forward all day.  I love my planner.  It truly rules my world.

Wednesday, March 26, 2025

Still Me

 

Still Me (Me Before You, #3)Still Me by Jojo Moyes
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

Modern Fiction Audiobook
This is the 3rd and last book in the series. It was available on the Libby app so I chose it, even though I intended to wait awhile before reading the last one. I liked it. In fact, I think I liked it the best of the three books. It finishes up the story of Lou. She goes to New York City to serve as a personal assistant to a vey selfish woman. Lou learns a lot and matures a lot. She figures out who and what she wants to be and who she truly loves. I love the gradual transition, and I love how it ends. A good read.


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A Big Change For the Mackrorys

The Mackrorys just made a huge change in their lives.  Jared has been hired by C A L Ranch in Idaho to be their Chief Marketing Officer. He started his new employment on February 17th.  The family just moved there, too.   Their beautiful home is now for sale.   Nathan is staying  with friends to finish his senior year, then he will join his family in Idaho.
Kristen and Jared lived in Idaho for a couple of years before Jared went back to school for his Master's Degree.  They loved it there then and are sure they will again now.  We hope things go well as they get their kids settled in new schools and in their new ward.

Tuesday, March 25, 2025

Audrey in Finding Nemo

 Audrey recently played the part of Mr. Ray in Finding Nemo at her school.  She loved being in this play.  We got to watch her via video stream.  

Audrey with two friends from the play.  They were carpool buddies.

Pictures from the video.  They look a bit watery, but we actually could see and hear it really well.

She had a couple of solos and did great.









Great job Audrey!!


Monday, March 24, 2025

The Joke is On You

 Blake recently took his dental team to a convention.  At the concluding black-tie dinner, he wore his swimming suit with his tuxedo top to play a joke on his team.  But the joke backfired when he was called up to win a special but unexpected award.  Oops!


Friday, March 21, 2025

Kristen and Sara Meet

 Kristen and her cousin have lived about 45 minutes from each other for the last few years, but both are busy with big families and just haven't got together until recently.  Kristen drove down and they went to lunch together and got caught up.  They, along with Shonna, were roommates at BYU many years ago.  They figured it had been 20 years since they had seen each other!  They vowed to not let it be that long again and set a date for a cousin reunion in the summer.


Thursday, March 20, 2025

March Family Book club

 We met online for our March family book club.  We discussed the book The Lost Year by Katherine Marsh.  It is a powerful book about a part of history I knew nothing about.  We all really appreciated this book and had a great discussion about it.





We so enjoy this special time with our daughters.  Our next book is Crucial Conversations by Kerry Patterson.

Tuesday, March 18, 2025

Spring Has Sprung

 The other evening, Ken took me downtown to introduce me to two almond trees that are over 100 years old.  He told me that they were on his way to work and in the spring he would stop and get out of the car just to smell them before going on to work.  That is what we did:  Got out and smelled that beautiful scent and took a few pictures.  I wish I could post the smell!  



Monday, March 17, 2025

We Begin at the End

 

We Begin at the EndWe Begin at the End by Chris Whitaker
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

Fiction. Physical Book.
I’m missing this beautiful book on my TBR shelf. Let me just tell you that my TBR shelf (holds about 50 books) is my happy place. I smile every time I walk by it. And I’m missing seeing this beautiful cover on there. But that’s neither here nor there; let’s talk about the book.
Chris Whitaker has a very different and interesting writing style. He presents situations and then goes back and explains them. Like me, just now, that’s hard to explain. But you’ll see what I mean when you read this book. This is a sad story of a 13-year-old girl, Duchess Day Radley, outlaw, who pretends to be tough and who suffers great loss. She is a fierce and loving protector of her little brother. She cares for him as a mother would. But to everyone else she puts on a tough face. She is a powerful and unforgettable character. The other characters in the book are also so real and so well-written. The gripping plot keeps you turning the pages. Language is an issue, bringing my rating down to 3 stars.


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My Teacher Says I Need to Take a Shower

Now those are words no parent wants to hear!  Lisi announced that the second she got home from Kindergarten one day. Then she went on to explain that many children had the "Kindergarten flu" and so all of the children should shower as soon as they got home from school to wash off any virus that may be clinging to their skin or clothes.  Later, Kristen got an email from the school saying that the flu was hitting the school hard and everyone should take precautions and monitor their children carefully before sending them to school.
Luckily Lisi didn't get sick.
This is a picture of Lisi recently on her sixth birthday.


Sunday, March 16, 2025

Miss Benson's Beetle

 

Miss Benson's BeetleMiss Benson's Beetle by Rachel Joyce
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Historical Fiction. Physical Book.
This book was not what I expected when I picked it up to read it. I thought it would be about two women going on an adventure and becoming the best of friends. I guess that is what it is, but it SO much more. I learned to love both women and appreciate the horrific backgrounds they were trying to overcome. Though complete opposites, I loved how they came to appreciate, support, and love each other. This was a well-written memorable novel. 4 stars from me.


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Happy Birthday Grandpa!

 William sent this darling birthday card to Ken.  He is seven years old.




Friday, March 14, 2025

The Flu Took Us Out

Ken came home from our cruise with what we thought was just a cold.  But then I came down with it and got really sick.  I had fever and chills as well as the classic symptoms.  We were both sick the whole next week, taking us out of a lot of things that we love and hated to miss:

Tuesday:  We had to get substitutes for our temple sealing assignments.  We hate to miss that.

Wednesday:  I couldn't go to Keynote rehearsal which I love.  

We were supposed to leave after Keynotes to go to Salt Lake City.  We were going to watch Jaron play in his ballgame that evening. 

Friday:  We had tickets to attend Beauty and the Beast that evening.  Gabbi was playing the part of the Enchantress, as well as several other parts.  We were so excited to see her.

Saturday:  We were planning to leave Salt Lake Saturday morning to get home in time to attend my sister Pam's 80th birhtday party here in St. George.  Man, we hated to miss that.  It would have been so fun to see all of her family and be part of that big celebration.

Sunday:  Our primary was singing in sacrament meeting.  I play the piano for the Primary.  I had to get a substitute.

That afternoon, we had an appointment with the couple that we  ministers to.  We LOVE to go to their home each month.  They are working so hard to get active in the church and to go to the temple.  Ken was feeling better enough to keep the appointment and teach the last preparation lesson on the Melchizedek priesthood (we had already cancelled the Sunday before because Ken was sick and hated to hold up their progress.)  Our friend Dean went with him.  I felt so sad to miss it!

I started going out a bit on Tuesday and Wednesday, but still was quite congested and coughing.  But, as you can see, that mean old flu or Covid or whatever it was took us out of some very special important things.😢   I have a few pictures of the above events that others sent me:

Gabbi in Beauty and the Beast:



When we saw this picture, both of us thought our Gabbi looked so much like our Michelle.  This was her role as the Enchantress.

She had several roles- as a townsperson


And dancer.



And she was a dancing napkin.




Dang she's cute.  We sure hated to miss this.



 



Be our guest!






After play hugs from her brother.

It was hard to get a picture of her beautiful Enchantress costume, so they got it after.













We were grateful Pam and Roger posted some pictures of Pam's big bash.  How we hated to miss it!




Pam and Roger's family.

I love my sister Pam.  She has always been one of my heroes.  She certainly doesn't look 80 years old!