Monday, May 27, 2013

Consecration of Preparation or Sermon on the Blog


This mantra almost borders on being a pet peeve.  How so?  I am a believer in preparation.  Whether preparing a talk or lesson or attending choir rehearsals or preparing to pray or making dinner or whatever . . .we need to prepare.  I'm afraid that sometimes we think we can skip over preparing and it will still be alright.  Sometimes it does work out okay, but when we slide by, we're missing valuable blessings.  There is truly consecration in preparation.  There are blessings available only to those who truly put their best into something. Let me give a couple of examples:

  I love the story President Eyering told about preparation- at least that's the message I got from it.  He was asked to speak at graduation services at a university.  The university president had wanted President Gordon B. Hinckley, but he was unavailable, so Elder Eyering got the job by default.  He was a junior member of the quorum of the 12 apostles at the time.  When the person who invited him to speak found out that it was his duty to be a witness of Jesus Christ, she got very anxious.  She called him and told him in very firm tones that he was not to do that when he spoke at the graduation.  "This university respects people of all religious beliefs, including those who deny the existence of God.  You cannot fulfill your duty here."
Here is what happened in President Eyering's words (notice the preparation):
"I hung up the phone with serious questions in my mind. Should I tell the university that I would not keep my agreement to speak? It was only two weeks before the event. My appearance there had been announced. What effect would my failing to keep my agreement have on the good name of the Church?
I prayed to know what God would have me do. The answer came in a surprising way to me. I realized that the examples of Nephi, Abinadi, Alma, Amulek, and the sons of Mosiah applied to what I was. They were bold witnesses of Jesus Christ in the face of deadly peril.
So the only choice to be made was how to prepare. I dug into everything I could learn about the university. As the day of the talk grew closer, my anxiety rose and my prayers intensified.
In a miracle like the Red Sea parting, I found a news article. That university had been honored for doing what the Church has learned to do in our humanitarian efforts across the world. And so in my talk I described what we and they had done to lift people in great need. I said that I knew that Jesus Christ was the source of the blessings that had come into the lives of those we and they had served.
After the meeting the audience rose to applaud, which seemed a little unusual to me. I was amazed but still a little anxious. I remembered what happened to Abinadi. Only Alma had accepted his witness. But that night, at a large formal dinner, I heard the university president say that in my talk he heard the words of God."

I love this story and think it's such a great example of humble preparation.  Elder Eyering could have just said, "Okay, Spirit.  Tell me what to do."  But instead, he went to work with intense preparation.  I can't help but think the miracle that happened was a direct blessing for that preparation.

 I have been a church choir director for many, many years.  I've also led a women's singing group for many years.  There have been many dedicated singers in those groups over the years.  But, there have also been those who are really "good" who don't think they need to attend the rehearsals.  They're good enough that they can just slide in at the end and it will be fine.  And it will be fine.  But what they don't ever realize is the blessings they could have had had they faithfully attended the rehearsals.  There is a peace and confirmation that comes- a kind of "seal of approval" that makes the singing experience so much more fulfilling and spiritual if we prepare.  Right now, the Keynotes group is full of preparers.  I am constantly amazed at the level of preparation for every, single rehearsal.  It pushes me beyond my limits to stay ahead of them.  When we do get to performances, every word, note, and rhythm is memorized and our music can go so far beyond what it could down in that "technical only" level.  I am so grateful to see this contrast and to see the consecration of preparation.  We still make mistakes.  The way we're blessed isn't necessarily that we can perform perfectly.  But I see other blessings that come because we did our part.  It's a sweet experience.

I didn't mean this to be "The Sermon on the Blog."  Well, maybe I did.  I guess I just feel passionate about preparation (sometimes a little TOO much.  My next mantra post will be the rebuttal to this one.) I guess you could say it's one of my mantras!

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Saturday, May 25, 2013

"I Prayed if it is True, and it is!"


   On Tuesday, April 30th, the google chat bells sounded and I answered to see my excited seven-year-old granddaughter, Brielle, calling from Wisconsin.   She excitedly told me, "I finished!"  I knew what she meant.  She had been determinedly reading The Book of Mormon.  She had called to report she had finished it! She was so excited!
  Around the time of her seventh birthday in November, Brielle set the goal to read the Book of Mormon before her eighth birthday and her baptism.  She got a Book of Mormon reading chart and determined how much she would need to read each day to accomplish her goal.  Each evening, she would count how many verses there were in the two chapters and her mom or dad would read half aloud and she would read the other half.  No matter how late or tired, she would insist on doing it.  If mom or dad couldn't help, she would read it all herself.  She got way ahead of her reading chart, so revised her goal to finish by the end of April- a full six months before her eighth birthday.  And she did it!
   Grandpa Ken isn't usually home on Tuesday evenings, but they had a meeting cancelled that evening, so he came in while I was talking to her, and got to be here for the important call.  Grandpa Ken said, "Brielle, if you just finished, then you read Moroni's challenge and promise tonight."  Brielle's answer was so sweet it made me cry, "Yes.  I prayed if it is true and it is!"
    Brielle's daddy was at mutual that evening, so she'd finished it all by herself.  Since she would be in bed when her daddy got home, she wrote a note telling him of her accomplishment.  What a treasure this note will be to her all of her life!

   Congratulations, Brielle!  Grandpa Ken and Grandma Kay couldn't be more proud of you!!

Thursday, May 23, 2013

From the Mixed-up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler

From the Mixed-Up Files of Mrs. Basil E. FrankweilerFrom the Mixed-Up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler by E.L. Konigsburg

My rating: 3 of 5 stars


I like E. L. Konigsburg. In this cute book, she takes the universal experience most children have of "running away" and makes it into an adventure every child dreams about. Set in the '60s, Claudia and her brother Jaime run away from their suburban home and go into to the city and "live" in the Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York City. They live on Jaime's meager savings, bathe in a coin-laden fountain, sleep in an old Victorian bed on display in the museum, and spend their days exploring the museum. The story even becomes a bit of a mystery as the children become interested in a statue of an angel, that may have been sculpted by the great Michaelangelo. In meeting the eccentric Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler, Claudia finds a kindred spirit, and the children find out the truth about the beautiful statue.
Though this certainly could never happen today with security measures as they've become, and probably couldn't have happened even back in the 1960's, it's fun to read about and dream about the adventure of the Kincaid children.



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Tuesday, May 21, 2013

The End of an 18 1/2 Year Era



On Sunday, May 5th, Ken and the stake presidency were released.  Thus ends an 18 1/2 year era for us.  Ken served in this stake presidency as 1st counselor and in the last one as executive secretary, for a total of 18 1/2 years.  So that's 18 1/2 years of being gone every Tuesday night.  That might be the biggest change: having him home on Tuesday evenings.  I'm used to having the puncher (remote) all to myself!  But, honestly, I don't think he'll be fighting for the remote.  That's not how he rolls.  I think he'll be out doing yard work or out on his bike.  

When Elder Golden of the '70 was here, he said that in the 200 or so stakes he has visited, this is the first one that has had all five members of the presidency in for the whole term.  So I guess that's a distinction.  These are wonderful men who have blessed Ken's life a lot.  That's the hardest part about the release- losing that close association.   
  A few weeks ago, we all went out to dinner together, and afterward, we presented President Lyman and his wife with a gift to thank them for their service.  

Ken wasn't jobless for long:  The day after he was released, the bishopric of our ward called him to be a gospel doctrine teacher in the ward.  They also asked him to speak on the atonement in sacrament meeting for our Invitation Sunday- which he did Sunday. He's excited for a new challenge and new opportunity for service.  A change is as good as a rest- right?   Other than about a year as a scoutmaster when we lived in Washington, and a few months when we first moved here in 1985 as Cub Master, this is the first time in our marriage that he hasn't been in administration in the church.  It will be a change and a new challenge for him.  

Sunday, May 19, 2013

Sunday: Google Chats and a Gila Monster!

We always love our Sunday Google + calls with our kids.  Today we were favored with a beautiful ballet dance number from Gabbi.




 And lots of smiles and blown kisses from Jaron.
 Lily and Caleb had lots of smiles and chatter for us.  Out of the blue, Lily said, "Yosh!"  After family prayer at our house, we say "Yosh!"  We always have . .. Ken and I still do.  It's tradition.  Little Lily remembered that and said it to us.  So cute!
 Caleb was especially excited to tell us about their father/sons outing where they slept in the trunk and roasted martianmellows.  That's what he told us!


 After the calls we went for a drive to see the home of a family that is moving from our ward.  Just a half a block from their house we saw a Gila Monster!  I'm not kidding!  We watched it waddle/ shuffle it's way down the street as birds clustered around it and followed it.  We aren't sure why the birds followed.  Maybe they were chasing it?  There were doves, robins, house sparrows, house finches, and Western Kingbirds following it.  We watched from the car and followed it ourselves for quite a while.
It ended up at the house of a friend (Ken replaced him in the stake presidency 9 years ago), so Ken went and got him and showed him.  It was awesome- like watching a nature show.  Gila monsters are an endangered species.  You don't want to get close enough to get bit by one.  They are poisonous and when they bite, they don't let go.  Could the birds instinctively know that?  Nature is fascinating.

We don't want that family to move from our ward, so I'm thinking I'll email these pictures to them, hoping it will scare them so much they won't move.  

So that's our exciting Sunday evening.  

Saturday, May 18, 2013

What Did the Prophet Ask Us to Do?

What Did the Prophet Ask Us to Do?
As I always do, I just compiled the list of "to dos" given by our prophet in the April, 2013 general conference.  I read the talks, looking for directives.  Sometimes he's quite direct, but usually it starts with  "I urge. . . " or "Let us . . ."  or "May you or your . .  "   I don't claim this to be a "perfect list" or that it includes everything we need to do.  It's just my best attempt at gleaning from his talks the things we need to be working on.  I give this as a visiting teaching handout.  I'm grateful for a prophet!

Sunday Morning Session
“We invite you, as you are able, to contribute generously to the General Missionary Fund of the Church.”
“I urge you to be attentive and receptive to the messages which we will hear.” (In this conference)

Priesthood Session
Search the scriptures with diligence.
Study the scriptures each day both individually and with our families.
Plan your life with purpose (regardless of your age.)
Teach the truth with testimony
Serve the Lord with love

Sunday Morning Session
Very simple message: Obey!

Sunday Afternoon Session
“I urge you to study the messages (of this conference) further when they are printed . . “
“ I admonish you to be good citizens of the nation in which you live and good neighbors in your communities, reaching out to those of other faiths as well as to our own. Be tolerant of and kind to those who do not share our beliefs and our standards.”
“ . . Be aware of the needs around us.”
Youth
Widows and Widowers

Blessing
“As this conference now concludes, I invoke the blessings of heaven upon each of you. May your homes be filled with peace, harmony, courtesy, and love. May they be filled with the Spirit of the Lord. May you nurture and nourish your testimonies of the gospel, that they will be a protection to you against the buffetings of Satan.”

Tuesday, May 14, 2013

A Girl of the Limberlost

A Girl of the Limberlost (Limberlost, #2)A Girl of the Limberlost by Gene Stratton-Porter

My rating: 4 of 5 stars


There's something important about a book that was enjoyed by my mother, my daughter, and me! And who knows, my grandmother maybe even read it. She also was an avid reader, so it wouldn't surprise me. I guess you'd call that a classic. I thoroughly enjoyed reading this "growing up" story again. Elnora is an inspiring literary hero. Her determination to make something of her life is inspiring. Besides growing up, the book deals with themes of grief, extreme poverty, abuse, nature, and love- both family love and romantic love. This book was one of my mother's favorite books, so I thought of her as I read it. That made it even more enjoyable for me.



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Saturday, May 11, 2013

Dutch Carribean Cruise with Michelle and Brian



Last week, we went on a cruise with Brian and Michelle.  We had such a fun time.  We ate LOTS of yummy and beautiful food:
Home away from home: The Palms Dining Room!















Michelle trying escargot.





Oh, the desserts!

One must cleanse one's palette.

We had fun dancing- especially MIchelle.  She and Brian are AMAZING swing dancers.  They stole the show.  This is Michelle in the Disco Nightclub. 


 We watched Les Miserables on a huge screen under the stars (and in the WIND!!!)


I don't have pictures, but I think our funnest evening was one spent up in the pool near the spa on deck.  We went up in the evening after dinner, and I think they forgot about us.  They close the front of the boat every night for safety reasons, but I think they forgot we were up there.  So for over two hours we had the pool and front of the ship to ourselves. We swam and sat in the hot tub and looked at the stars and the ocean.  It was just wonderful!  When we came down, it was all roped off and they looked surprised to see us.  





We stopped on three beautiful islands:
The Princess Cays








Curacau

 On Curacao we hired a taxi to give us a tour of the island, including Hato Caves.
 Iguana Soup anyone?  They say it's delicious and tastes like . .. you guessed it!
 Hato Caves



 View from the very high bridge.
 Curacao is one of the most colorful places I've ever been.  Our taxi driver told us that everyone paints their house a new bright color each New Year's Day to bring them good luck in the next year.












Aruba
 This is supposed to be voted the 2nd most beautiful beach in the world.




 This tree is famous in Aruba.  It's just out there in the middle of the ocean.  It's been blown almost flat by the tradewinds., but it still lives.  I think there's an object lesson in there somewhere!


Ice Carving demonstration

 A passenger had to be taken off the ship by helicopter- a medical rescue.  It was amazing to watch as the helicopter just hovered near the ship for about an hour.  They first dropped a Coast Guard guy who then strapped in and sent up the patient, then the spouse, then he went up.  It was pretty amazing to watch.


The sunsets were beautiful.  




 When we got off the boat in Ft. Lauderdale, we took a tour of the Everglades on a really noisy boat.  We saw alligators in the wild.



This guy is on a television show on Animal Planet where he works with alligators.  He was pretty fearless.







 We went to a nature preserve called Flamingo Gardens.














We had such a wonderful time!  Thanks, Brian and Michelle!